Tacky Tiara

 I've yet to see a tiara that looks amazing on anyone except Kate and Mary. They look cheap and tacky. We have a fascination with all things princess. There's nothing wrong with that. But by now, you've found your prince and you're about to marry him so that's enough princess don't you think? 

This is so unique, I've not seen anything like it and it's beautiful.

We love to think that we can be a princess and have it all, and so came the evolution from Diana's royal crown on her big day to the commoners attempting an imitation. Now, let me remind you that there are hundreds of diamonds, ruby's and emeralds in her crown, it's a family heirloom and tradition. Does your tiara fit into any of those categories? No? Then put the thing down. It's just not going to look good. You'll look vein, I promise you and that's not something you want to look ever, let alone on the biggest day of your life when everyone you know will be taking photo's of you. The combs always show and they never sit right. Just take a minute to think about a tiara, what shape is it, would you wear it to a ball or a dinner? What makes your wedding different to that? Other than the fact that you're marrying the person you love? My point here is that your wedding is about you marrying him (or her). You, you. If YOU don't wear a tiara at any other time, why would YOU wear one on your wedding day? Weddings are about expressing yourselves and your love for each other. Where do tiaras fit into your life?

Don't feel bad that you thought about wearing one, we have these ideas in our minds about what a wedding is and for most of us, we only get married once, so it's not something we've had any practice at. That's why you should do some research, like reading this blog. 


When thinking about your wedding, it's easy to get overwhelmed because the possibilities are endless. They really are. If your wedding is going to be grand occasion, of two pedigree families joining than perhaps a tiara is traditional and you don't have a choice because your Mother won't have it any other way. But if your day is about you, then look like you. Show your true style in what you wear. Don't wear something because it's "bridal". 


Unless you're really into the idea of being a princess on your day, I would stay away from crystal (en)crusted tiaras and explore something new.

If you're going to go big, make a statement. And if you're thinking simple, then stay simple. Don't stuff around somewhere in the middle. 

This is the look a lot of brides are aiming for, paired with some kind of chignon. But don't be fooled, this is not a tiara, this is a headband.